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What to do when a guy ignores you?


Ignorance is the sister of disrespect. They are closely related. If a person ignores you, it means you are not worthy of their time. It happens to everyone.  Don't believe when someone says "I am busy", as an excuse. Yes, we are all busy, we live with a busy schedule, but the day is long 24 hours and in this time we made priorities. So, guess are you in the priority list if someone ignores you a day, week, or a month? The answer is no. When you wish to hear news from someone or stay in contact, you will make an attempt. It means you will use any reason to stay in contact.  When you don't wish to stay in contact, you will do an excuse. Everything will be more important to you, even your cat's...
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It is better to be alone than with fake friends


Some people love to live in illusion. Nobody comes to your birthday party? Don't pity yourself, if you are alone, you are in a good company. On the other hand, imagine that 10 people come to your birthday, and nobody of them isn't loyal. Dubravka organized birthday in a coffee bar.  She gathered 10 girls to celebrate her 18th birthday. They came with gifts and she paid them drinks. Those were her guests. Until she was unpacking gifts, they talked to each other and neglected Dubravka. One of the girls, Simona, was a center of the attention because her ex-boyfriend Robert entered the bar.  "Oh, look who is here. Your ex, Simona." girls murmured. "What are you doing here?" Robert approached the...
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Do you attract wrong people?


It happens that you wish to attract a certain person. Your vision is about someone who will support you, offer a shoulder for crying, someone you can lean on. Instead of this, you got a passive person who will not move a little finger for you. Or you got an egoist who just thinks of himself and his needs. It is wrong to blame a person who is in your life now. You could blame your choice, or research your character. What is inside of you that you attract someone like this?  What kind of impression you leave? If you are a fragile woman, kind and obedient, you will attract a tough guy who will stand by your side and protect you. If you are a strong, independent woman, you will attract a soft ma...
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Why some women play a seductive game, but don't want a relationship


Do you wonder why some women are always elegant, approachable and kind, so it makes them popular? On first sight, men will think that they are available to flirt. They expose their photos on social networks, you can see them everywhere. She has many followers on Instagram, she is popular on Facebook. She is popular in her workplace. She is a popular neighbor. Guys with less experience will try to involve with them. It looks like an easy target to get in the bed, they will think. Suddenly, there is a wall. The same woman who smiled at you and talked sweet showed you the way out. "No, I am not interested in you," she says. You try again. "What part of this sentence you don't understand. Get ou...
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What friendship with an ex-boyfriend really means?


Everyone has ex - relationships. We build our experiences through failed relationships, we jump in the romances which will not end well. Maybe we know from the beginning there is no future, but we are tempted. Then we make an attempt and it fails. Every past relationship is not a bitter experience. After we froze our feelings and time pass, we could modify our romance to friendship. Yes, that person is still in our life, just with a different role. We are not kissing and cuddling anymore, we just want to be there as support.  There is no problem if we have an agreement. You know where is the line. I will talk to you and you have my loyalty, but it doesn't mean that I will jump in your bed wh...
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5 kinds of obstacles to your success


If you ask yourself why your progress is too slow and why you are still standing on the place, make the analyze inside of you. It is not a curse and a lack of powerful acquaintances. It is not a high force. These factors stand on your way: Fear. You are afraid of what you might be. You are not aware of this but imagine that you are in public now? Are you trembling? Are you afraid to lose privacy? Shyness. You are afraid to ask someone to help you. You are insecure about your qualities. You think others are better than you. Ego. You think you know all the best but collaboration is necessary. You don't want to admit mistakes. Fake friends. Cut off all connections with doubters. Empty promises....
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Act like diva


Never let someone build your ego in a way that you are chasing him. I know a woman in love will do many crazy things but don't let a man knows that you are interested in him. Tell him jokes. Be busy. Talk about ordinary things. Smile and look pretty. Be surrounded by friends. That is what's divas do. They are not a second choice. They are not waiting for anyone. They don't beg for attention. Check out my book. There is no happy end for romance but the happy end is related to self-respect. Original link Original author: Kristina Gallo
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How to find right business connections?


When you walk on the hard path of betrayal and disloyalty, you will be frustrated. Everyone will be the same for you, the face you can't trust. Someone who will screw you. Another one who will use you and take advantage.  This is not the right way if you want success.  The first step to recover from traitors is to forget the past. Don't look back, you are not going that way. It means: If someone rejected you in the past, let him stay there. Don't beg for return and don't accept if he changes mind.  If someone called you after century passed, don't accept this call. Ignore and go forward. The second step is to stop comparing people. We are different, and if someone reminds you of the bad pers...
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Why some men think that all women can be their property?


When a man is handsome, it is his advantage. Many doors will open to him, and many women will ask for his attention. What makes a difference is how that man use his attraction, on bad or a good way? Some guys act like morons. They will use their sexy appearance to treat women like cheap trash. They will try to use them just for sex and then throw them. They will use rich women to get money, young women to use their naivete, and depressed women to use their feeling of loneliness. Internet is a heaven for men with evil attention. Here how the story goes: "I am handsome, I can get every woman. I will follow her, like her photos and ask for Whatssup. Then I will ask her for naked photos. After t...
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Is your friend your rival indeed?


Snakes come in the garden of flowers just like you might find enemies in your friend's circle. You would not imagine that someone who supported you and gives you compliments is an envious person in fact. Real friends are not perfect. They will tell you when you pick the wrong clothes when you got fat when you made the wrong choice of boyfriend. They will tease you and disagree with you from time to time. Fake friends will nod on every your statement, try to copy you or give too much flattering, but on the first sight of trouble they will ignore you and you can't count of them. How to expose a fake friend in your circle? It is not an easy task. I was discovering my fake friends years by years...
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She made him feel purer


She made him feel purer. He felt urged to change his lifestyle. Behind him were a bunch of women, but many of them were dirty. A long time ago he was in this desperate club. There were people who were drowning, and nobody gave them a straw. Any woman was welcomed to his arms. It doesn't matter if she was old, poor, ugly, stupid or mean, she was a woman gender and all this mattered.  That relationships were a field of damage for him. His friends, family, watched over him like he has a plague. Nobody liked to socialize with him at his workplace because his reputation was not good.  One day she came. She was distanced, but without any judgment. She knew how is to feel isolated, so she accepted ...
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Are you a judgmental friend?


People love to look down on someone, just to feel powerful. Judgments are something you can't avoid in gossip's circle, but if the topic is your friend things become uglier. Even in virtual circles, people love to warn each other about their friends. Sometimes I get messages about this "dangerous guy", "filthy woman", "maniac" or "pervert." Especially if the sender is an unknown person, I ignore it. What I think about judgment? I am not a jury. I am not perfect, either. If I chose someone as a friend, I will not judge him. I accept a friend with all the imperfections. We are humans, not robots.  Judging someone means that you are an insecure person. Asking failures with a magnifier means tha...
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He wants you only to fulfill his needs


Do you know how to make a difference between a guy who likes you and a guy who loves you? Many women make mistakes by listening to compliments from guys who only want to drag them to the bed. A woman's vanity will blossom when a guy says: "You are so different from other women." Indeed, this is his tricky way to get what he wants because he likes you and you are a suitable temporary match, but he doesn't want to be obligated to you. To simplify this, I will say that a man might want many women to have sex, but just one to love her and care about her. Did you already hear this story? "You look very beautiful tonight. I am burning for you. You are sexy." Later on, it could be another story. "I...
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Why we should pity jealous people?


Jealousy is a sting in your heart and soul. You want something that others have.  You wish something that belongs to you accord your beliefs, but someone stole it from you.  You wish to move someone from your spot because his place is not there, he is level under you. A positive person streams to reach the aim. When your head is full of plans and when your schedule is busy, you have no time to check other's lives. You will check what is important to you and connect with you. Recently a woman made comment under my book even she did not read it. Her eyes stuck of my cover and title and she said that sounds like a horrible book. Personally, I would feel embarrassed to comment on something I did...
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Why is inner peace so important?


Look at how much times you spent on unimportant conflicts and quarrels. Whilst ego is building itself, your time will never come back. Look how many important moments vanished whilst you hated someone from depth in your soul. We can't help ourselves. Sometimes we spend hours by analyzing could anything be different if we reacted normally in past conflicts. Could we be calmer? I was different before. I jumped on every bad word from some pricks because I wanted to fight back. Doesn't matter if this was an internet troll or a real person, I always wanted to give my feedback. Later, I learned that some bullets are not worthy to be used. Some fights are not worthy of starting. You can win a battl...
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Don't mix love and like, it is not a good fusion


Do you see between lines, do you mix real love with a fake sugarcoated story, or you just want to see what you wish to see? The one who loves you wants the whole image of you. He knows how you look without makeup. He understands when you are struggling with your weight. He understands why you are crying when things are not well. He knows why you are angry. He listens and observes.  He sits with you in the dark. The one who only likes you: He wants to see your best edition. He is not interested in why you have black thoughts. He doesn't want to listen to your problems. He has no time for your depression. He wants you physically but he doesn't see under your surface. Sometimes, like is very we...
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The review - Yasir Sulaiman - Collection of Short Stories (Hearing Unspoken Voices)


First of all, this collection is about fables, not short stories. The concept of a short story is different, these are fables with messages. Every text has a point, and the author has a lot of emotions, his access is even too idealistic. But, I see the wisdom and I liked a story about cats and dogs, how the strongest survive.  It has to be read with understanding because this is a kind of life philosophy. Here are beliefs, that people should be better with each other, but it is not always possible when you are surrounded by selfishness and egoism.  It reminds me of La Fontaine, makes your conclusion what is best for you, and it is not always good for others.  There is a contradictory message...
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The review - Leaving Pandora - Bibiana Krall


https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B06XCS1DJK/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i0 This is an excellent story about two people who love their freedom more than romance.  The author creates an original idea without passion in this relationship where love is platonic, not physical. They are a spiritual couple. What makes me fascinated is their distance when they were together. Even he introduced her to his family, they stayed between their boundaries. This is a paradox in this story, two people who are so independent but yet emotionally restricted.  There were respect and loyalty, but ego is a big obstacle to build a mature relationship. Maybe this couple is still on the level of the childish...
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How differences between couples affect the relationship?


Did you ever wonder why you can't agree with some people? It doesn't have to be your fault or their problem, it is just a wrong connection. If you are attracted by a man who is so different from you and you are constantly fighting, it is just a wrong turn. People with various characters will attract each other at first sight.  It happens that sex is great. You love different things but you explore each other. You hate him and love him at the same time. You feel like on the battlefield, conflicts are part of your routine. Rebecca fell in love with Adam very fast. They were friends but sparks between them won the game, they slept together. Differences between them became obvious after a few mo...
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Never talk about yourself as a loser


We are all struggling with various problems. Someone can't be slim. Diets are not working out. Someone can't find a partner. Someone hates their job. We are sometimes in the situation which needs a way out, but the gate is not here. The worst thing you can do is to mark yourself as a loser. "I need to die." "I am not worthy, I can't do it." If you make statuses about this is social media, you will not get useful advice. You will get pity, mockery or preaching. Remember, people don't know you personally, and they will run away from you because you don't like yourself, so how you could gain their affection? Too much positive attitude is also irritating, so these words make me nervous: The sun ...
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